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To be sure, relationship scientists have found a good deal about what makes some relationships more successful than others. By way of example, such scholars frequently videotape couples while both partners discuss specific topics in their union, such as a recent battle or important personal goals. Such scholars also frequently analyze the effect of life circumstances, such as unemployment anxiety, infertility problems, a cancer diagnosis, or an attractive co-worker. Scientists can use such information about people's social dynamics or their life circumstances to predict their long-term relationship well-being.
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